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it just comes in flashes.

Last Night’s Dinner

Posted By on June 6, 2007

Sorry, please excuse me, but I just feel this need to gush. I was so very pleased yesterday evening.

Two of my kids made dinner. The 18 year old boy made better-than-ordinary grilled cheese sandwiches (with good, 12 grain bread, fresh tomato slices, and a variety of tasty cheeses), and helped me pick out salad ingredients. The 11 year old girl also helped with salad ingredients and made the salad. They were both really good. After dinner, the 16 year old girl made dessert, strawberry cheesecake bagles.

The salad had ordinary bagged salad mix, to which we added mushrooms, grapes, mustard greens, sugar snap peas, green onions, garlic greens, and celery. The exciting part is that the mustard greens, sugar snap peas, green onions, and garlic greens came out of our garden.

For dessert, we found something we’d never seen before: a tub of ready-to-eat cheesecake filling. We put that on blueberry bagles, and sliced our home-grown strawberries on top.

I just can’t say enough what a thrill it is: It isn’t even summer yet, and already we’re loading our table with homegrown goodies. In another few weeks we’ll be adding to the strawberries, snap peas, onions, garlic, and mustard greens with three kinds of peppers (from very hot to very mild) and more than half a dozen kinds of tomatoes.

It’s hard to see a garden and not stop to give thanks. God is a generous Lord!

That New Pill

Posted By on June 5, 2007

I don’t know how many times I would have jumped at the idea, when I was younger, to take a pill to make my periods go away. Now that I’m older, they’ve come out with such a pill (a contraceptive) and I’m less enthusiastic. In fact, I’m a little worried. I know everyone has already hashed out the contraceptive arguments, so I think I’ll gloss by those for now, not wanting to repeat what has already been said. What I really want to say is that there is a whole list of reasons that taking a pill to stop your periods sounds like a bad idea.

1. The pill is a contraceptive. Every contraceptive method has a failure rate, and the most common way of knowing when a contraceptive has failed is by a missed period. A woman on this pill may go a long time before she realizes she’s pregnant. In the meantime, she is not getting prenatal care, she is not likely to know her due date, and the pills may be harming her unborn child. Where a chance of pregnancy exists, the idea of eliminating the most common method of pregnancy detection seems at least unwise.

2. The period exists for a reason. It is not an illness to be corrected, and in fact for a reproductive age woman not to have them can cause health problems. Especially if the body thinks it is pregnant (which is how this and other typical birth control pills work), the endometrium lines the uterus for implantation and nutrition. Without periods, this endometrial lining cannot wash itself out and refresh. I very seriously doubt that the long term effects (like 5-20 years) of this pill on the endometrium and uterus have been fully tested. I have a strong suspicion that in a decade we’ll be seeing a whole lot more Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and bacterial infections, as well as damage to the uterine wall from old endometrial tissue.

3. Most women who go on hormonal contraceptives want to have babies someday. Again, I doubt sufficient testing on long-term use and future fertility.

If anyone knows of any studies on the long term repercussions of this pill, I would be grateful if you could point me to them.

Note to Monkeytot

Posted By on June 4, 2007

You are not two yet. Get up off the floor and stop screaming.

The Library and the Bookstack

Posted By on June 1, 2007

I know bloggers: both the readers and the writers tend to be book people. “Other” people have a bookshelf, maybe a bookcase. Book people run out of wall space for their bookcases. They have a basket of books and magazines on the back of the toilet, and a short stack of books lying on the end table. The bigger stack on the nightstand needs sorting, because too many books have been begun and not yet finished.

There’s the library, that delightful gallery and marketplace you browse through as you drink your coffee in the morning. You gaze at title upon title and muse about when you will read this and why you should read that. It’s the eleven year old’s candy store. You look and look, but you really only have the ability to choose one or maybe two at a time.

Then there’s the stack.

The stack is the nitty gritty, the true love for the book lover. The stack is what you actually begin to read, maybe sink yourself into with passion or muck yourself through with duty. The stack is the stuff that, after hours of gazing at a bookstore or your own bookcases, you actually chose to pick up. When you had to narrow your selection, the stack was what you couldn’t resist.

The stack says something about you. It says what you enjoy, or what you value. Sometimes it says where you place your sense of duty. Even the size of the stack makes a statement about you: are you realistic, or a dreamer? Do you finish what you start?

Around the blogosphere, you see a lot of “What I’m Reading” sidebars. I’m finally going to jump on the train… as soon as Blogger fixes the problem that is making it impossible to make changes to the template. I’d love to know what you’re reading, too.

What Do Teresa of Calcutta and Francis of Assisi Have in Common?

Posted By on May 24, 2007

I am reading a book called Mother Teresa: A Simple Path. I’m not very far into it yet; actually, only still in the introduction. Yet something struck me as I read one passage, which referred to St. Francis as a Church reformer. The passage called him “revolutionary” and “progressive.” And it pointed out the fruits of Francis’ efforts, even within his own lifetime:

By the time of his death, he had gathered more than five thousand professed monkis, priests, and nuns to carry on his work. Today, the Franciscan order thrives as one of the largest religious orders in the world.

The Bible says we know a tree by the fruit it bears, and after so many centuries, we still see a shining beacon of faithfulness and the giving of life to God wholeheartedly as a fruit of the work of Francis.

He never nailed complaints to a door or chewed out a Pope. He never threatened or left the Church, but instead stayed to rebuild it. And he didn’t do it through bitterness or judgment, but by devoting himself entirely to God, at great personal sacrifice. The point of the book, of course, is that this is the same sort of reform that time will show to be the long-lasting fruit of Mother Teresa’s work.

When we look at the efforts of Luther, can we say the same? Did he reform the Church by personal holiness, sacrifice, and increasing his own closeness to God? When we look at the long-lasting fruits of his efforts, we see schism, division, and dozens of thousands of different creeds, each claiming to be God’s one or greatest expression of truth. We see an example of a man who (I must trust) had good intentions in pointing out the flaws in the way the Church was operating, but who expressed his concerns, ultimately, not by prayer or holiness. Rather, he expressed his concerns by dissent and departure. He began a movement in which any man has the right and opportunity to make up his own rules and interpretations and call them the Unchanging God’s new truth.

We all have the opportunity to strive for holiness. We all have the opportunity to choose obedience and faith. We all have the opportunity to keep our promises, pray, and give ourselves entirely to God. And when we see change needed, we have the power to create reform from within, whether we are talking about reforming the Church or the behavior the family’s children. How? Not by dissent or by bellowing, but rather by example. Luther’s disobedience started a new movement of dissent, but did not reform the behavior of the people of God. How could he preach obedience to God while breaking his own promise of celibacy and that of a nun, and living in overt and blatant sin against a promise made to God?

A child who hears foul language will learn to use foul language. A Church that models itself after disobedience and disregard for God and prayer will learn disobedience and disregard for God and prayer. Nailing complaints to a door will not, cannot change that.

The only way to increase holiness in the world is to start with ourselves. I can’t expect a world to follow me in pure worship if I am not willing to make the sacrifices of pure worship myself.

This is the lesson we can learn from both Francis of Assisi and Teresa of Calcutta. The first reform we must make is upon ourselves. When grace shines through us, the message of the Gospel will not be empty words but a living lesson.

Note to Hypertot

Posted By on May 17, 2007

Neither one of you is Sparticus. Now stop arguing.

Movie Meme

Posted By on May 16, 2007

My Charming and Patient Husband tagged me, and this is a fun one.

Here’s how it works: Pick out your ten favorite movies, then look them up at IMDb. In the overview at the top of each movie’s page, there are “Plot Keywords,” usually five of them. (Plus more, if you click the link.) Take the first five, and post them. Then the rest of us get to play movie buff and see if we can guess them.

Escapade / Nun / Humor / School / Prank

Quirky / Parent / Affection / Sibling Relationship / Relative
(Don’t blame me for the bland keywords!)

Broadway Musical / Austria Hungary / Austria / Tony Award Source / Governess

Desert / Camel / Vulture
(Sorry, that’s all there was. You probably wouldn’t guess this would be on anyone’s list, anyway.)

Child / Girl / Ankle Injury / Heroine / Orphan

Father Son Relationship / Father Daughter Relationship / Fired / Quitting Job / Cloud

Amphibious Vehicle / Child Catcher / Family / Children / Kidnapper

Rooftop / Split Screen / Intelligence Analysis / Bathrobe / Research

Switch Board / Adult As Child / Train / Military School / Cadet

Tank / Corrupt Official / Falsely Accused / Framed / Cannabis
(This wasn’t one of my original top ten choices, but Joel had one of mine, so this is a last minute replacement.)

Tag: Every time I tag someone I find out they already did the meme… so if you want to take it, it’s yours. Please drop a comment or a trackback, so I will know you did.

Don’t you know what causes that?

Posted By on May 14, 2007

Why, yes. Would you like me to explain it?

1. I am too proud. God wants to make me humble.
2. Chemistry.
3. My husband is really, really attractive. (In addition to being charming and patient, and making me feel every day like he is honored to be sharing a home with me.)
4. Biology.
5. Well, you see, when a Mommy and a Daddy love each other very, very much, they hug each other in a special way…
6. God has a sense of humor.

What kind of a fool wouldn’t laugh when God makes a funny?

Footprints

Posted By on May 11, 2007

It occurs to me… Al Gore paid to offset his carbon footprint. With one more future saint on the way here, maybe he should pay us for offsetting his moral footprint.

I don’t have an i-Pod.

Posted By on May 10, 2007

It must be the real thing.

Prayers welcome.