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Phonics Resources

Posted By on November 24, 2008

As some of you know, we are teaching our four year old to read. Now, he’s a very bright child, but he is also hyperactive, and sometimes has a hard time sitting still long enough to really learn. He also has an extremely literal language style, so sometimes we need to approach a subject from several perspectives to get its fullness across. After a lot of searching and experimenting, I’d like to share a few things that have really worked out well.

Starfall
It’s a website loaded with games and music, and Hypertot loves it. It is his favorite thing to do. I mean that literally. They sing songs that teach short and long vowels. They lead children through the process of sounding out letters in stories phonetically. They organize by particular phonetic rules, so it can be done in logical groupings or in the order of your own phonics program. And it’s free. I can’t recommend Starfall enough.

Bob Books
This is a series of books that spend more time teaching by doing than instructing rules. Each book focuses on just a few letter sounds, and the books progress toward increasingly difficult phonetic concepts. The beauty of these books is that they give even the earliest reader the opportunity to read a real book, with just a few words on each page. And they do this not by having a limited vocabulary reader and memorizing words, but by using phonics progressively. The only downside is that the set comes in very small books.

Victory Drill Book
This book is not a phonics book, but can work well with a phonics program. It focuses on increasing fluency and speed, by having children read lists of phonetically related words without any other context. It might sound pointless, having lists of words without any story, pictures, or context; but actually the lack of context is the beauty of this program. It forces a child to read the words, not guess them. It also begins to teach them the concept of onsets and rimes (the beginning sounds and end chunks of like words), by presenting similar words together in a list. This is not a stand-alone program, but it can be very useful for building fluency, or for supplementing another program or collection of materials.

Reading Pathways
This I chose because it meets a very specific need for us. Hypertot was having a hard time making the transition from reading individual phonetic sounds to reading words. He would read every word as a collection of sounds, and by the time he had the word sounded out he couldn’t remember what he’d already read. Reading Pathways actually works a child through the transition from sounding out letters to reading words phonetically. It brings a child to reading “whole words” without a whole language approach but rather a phonics approach. I have never seen any other product like it, but I can tell you that Hypertot showed a stunning and immediate improvement in his comprehension from the moment we began using this book.

Book Facts Meme

Posted By on November 23, 2008

The woman known to My Charming and Patient Husband and myself as Aunt Betsy, and to most of the Blogosphere as Ms. Kitty tagged us both with this one. As usual, nobody but nobody is faster to jump on a book subject than Joel … I think he may be considering legally adding “Bookworm” as a second middle name.

So here’s the lagging wife with hers, under the directions to list seven random or weird book facts about myself.

  • I prefer biographies to most other kinds of writing. That doesn’t mean I don’t like others, but I just have a rather morbid fascination with bios. I used to think it was because I felt guilty reading fiction, but I’m beginning to realize that it just seems so much more interesting knowing that what I’m reading is true… or at least perceived as true by the author. Autobiographies are especially fun, because you can psychoanalyze the author as you read, and nobody really cares if you’re accurate about it or not.
  • Most books that I’ve actually finished started out on the back of the toilet. Once I’m about halfway through, I take it out of the bathroom to rush through the rest.
  • I’ve read Jane Eyre nine times. The first time, when I was in fifth grade, I got into the habit of lying at the foot of my bed after lights out so I could read by the light from the hallway. When I reached the end, I cried — not because it was sad, but because it was finished.
  • I share a birthday with Charles Dickens and Laura Ingalls Wilder, a fact that has always pleased me, since they are two of my favorites. (I also share with Saint Thomas More, but I haven’t read any of his writing yet.)
  • I collect composition books. I really can’t say exactly why, but I just love them. When I buy or open a new one, it feels like pure possibility. I love the ones with unique covers, and I enjoy decorating the regular marbled ones.
  • I love used books, because knowing that a book has been previously enjoyed seems like an “added value.”
  • My favorite Bible translation is RSV, partly because it is beautiful, and partly because it is recognized by both Catholics and Protestants. I also rarely admit to liking the NAB, which Joel refers to as “Nice And Bland.” But it’s easy to read and find things in, and sometimes easy is good.

And the final instruction is 7 tags:
Christine at Ramblings of a Catholic Soccer Mom
Laura at Catholic Teacher Musings
Cassie at A Blessed Life
Deanna at Deanna’s Corner
Barb at SFO Mom
Sharon at The Bird’s Nest
Stacey at Housewife in Flip Flops

Heard around the house

Posted By on November 23, 2008

Artgal: “Nothing against Depp as an actor, but he needs to stop enabling Tim Burton.”

Note to Monkeytot

Posted By on November 22, 2008

Remember when I said you couldn’t put a bandage in your nose? I’m sorry, but you can’t put one in your mouth, either. It just won’t work.

Healthier Coffee

Posted By on November 19, 2008

If you want a quick and easy way to less guilty coffee, consider switching from half and half to evaporated milk. It contains about the same number of calories, but is much lower in fat. You will be surprised at how creamy it is, and it is more nutritious. Plus, for those on a budget, it costs less than half as much.

Note to Monkeytot

Posted By on November 15, 2008

No, you can’t put a bandage in your nose, even if it is bleeding.

Why I’m Pro-Life

Posted By on November 15, 2008

I could post on this subject a million times and have something different to say each time. Today, I want to give the un-reasons. The I’m not pro-life becauses.

  • I’m not pro-life because I’m conservative. Yes, I am more conservative than liberal, but I am not a “my side at all costs” conservative. I’m liberal on several issues, at least at heart. I oppose the death penalty. I believe that society must help those who need help (though I frequently disagree with modern liberal thinking about how that help should occur, I tend also to disagree with conservatives on the subject). I am not afraid to disagree with the “conservative” canon when I think it’s wrong.

  • I’m not pro-life because I’m a Republican. In fact, I’m only marginally a Republican in many ways, because I believe that conscience must always come before party affiliation. This ties in with the previous comment, because I believe that conscience must always come before political persuasion of the non-party type, also.

  • I’m not pro-life because I hate women. I love women, and I love being a woman. In fact, I am pro-life because I’m sick of the bum deal that men are giving women in abortion. Abortionists (mostly men) are making a pretty penny off of women by selling their wares, and pushing, and hawking, and instructing, and indoctrinating, and luring. I’ve seen women (girls) forced into abortion clinics to have abortions against their will. I’ve known women who were in situations where someone tried to force them to have abortions against their wills. I know three such women very closely.

  • Which brings me to my next not. I’m not pro-life because I’m anti-choice. I have seen too many instances where “pro-choice” politics and individuals have fought against individual and group choice. When “pro-choice” organizations like Planned Parenthood fight against informed consent (the right to a sonogram and accurate pregnancy information before making a choice about abortion, for example) it tells me that they are not concerned with women’s choice at all, but only with the bottom line.

  • I’m not pro-life because I’m judgmental. I want people to stop judging girls and women for being pregnant. First of all, I am, and you are, a sinner and unworthy to cast the first stone. Second, premarital sex may be a sin, but babies are never a sin. Let me reiterate that: Babies are NEVER a sin. Got that?

  • I’m not pro-life because I’m mean. I think it’s mean to pressure women into a painful and psychologically damaging procedure. I think it’s mean to dismember a human being because he or she is an inconvenience. I think it is mean to treat any human individual as a political issue or tool, rather than as a person. I believe that whenever possible, we as a society should be compassionate. And killing people is not compassionate.

  • I’m not pro-life because I’m Catholic. Yes, my faith requires me to uphold the value of human life. But frankly, I would be pro-life even if I were an atheist, because every human being has inherent value and I do not believe that one has more value than another, just because of age. And I do not think you have to be a Christian to believe in human worth.

  • I’m not pro-life because I “just don’t understand.” Yes, I do understand that for many women carrying a child and having the pregnancy become public knowledge can be traumatic and even have devastating repurcussions. Yes, I do understand financial difficulty. (Ask anyone who knows me; boy, oh boy do I understand that one.) Yes, I do understand fear, and having one’s life plans interrupted, and having to make sacrifices. I’ve been through all of those things. Yes, even in conjunction with some of my own pregnancies. But having been through those difficulties, I’ve also learned that there is light at the end of the tunnel, even when we are too far away from it to see it yet. I’ve learned that every single time I’ve made a sacrifice because it was the right thing to do, blessing has resulted. Long term, permanent, beautiful, life-altering blessing. Blessing of a sort that we cannot create for ourselves.

I know all the stereotypes about why people are pro-life. I’ve even known a few (very few) people who fit those stereotypes. But most of the people I know who oppose abortion do so for very similar reasons to my own.

My friends, and even those who might think themselves my enemies, if you are pro-choice, I beg you to spend half an hour today considering the other side. Nobody but you has to hear your thought processes. Nobody will judge you for it, and nobody will force you to change your views. But please, in the name of kindness, just spend half an hour thinking about it. Then, if you remain unchanged on the subject, you can return to your regularly scheduled thoughts. And may God bless you.

Heard around the house

Posted By on November 10, 2008

Me: Just think, if you were related to Esmeralda, you’d have to have Esmeralda at every family dinner.

Artgal: But if you were related to Aunt Clara, you’d have to have Henry the Eighth at every family dinner.

Heard around the house

Posted By on November 6, 2008

Artgal: “I hate it when I get cinnamon down my shirt.”
me: “Yeah, I always hate getting cinnamon down my shirt.”
Covarr: “Is this the voice of experience, or is this Instructables again?”

Another use for old socks

Posted By on November 5, 2008

I just can’t bring myself to throw away old socks. I’m sure that the moment the trash collector comes, the partner will turn up, even though I haven’t been able to wear the pair for two years because I’m not sure there is a partner.

Enter the pony tail holder. I keep running out of them. They break or get lost. And I do not wish to damage my hair with old fashioned rubber bands. If I cut the cuffs off my old socks, not only do I feel like I’m not wasting the sock, but I restock my pony tail holders for free, and with cute colors to boot. And they are much gentler than all rubber bands and many store-bought scrunchies.